Fabulous Friday – Fantastic Ideas from Forward-Thinkers

January 27th, 2012

Fabulous Friday is a riff on Twitter’s “Follow Friday.” Twitter users often suggest who others should follow on Fridays by tweeting with the hashtag #FF.

In this space I am sharing a person, an article, an idea, a visual, a comic – basically the “best” material I’ve seen during week regarding success and significance – with you.

This week amazing blogger (among other things) Chris Brogan wrote a terrific post about building your platform.  Even though this piece is written mainly for those wanting to build an online presence I believe many (not all) of his 97 tips are relevant to building a career platform and your leadership and life success.

I particularly liked tip 60: Remember that praise and criticism are the same: other people’s thoughts that shouldn’t sway your overall mission. (We tend to accept praise but loathe criticism. Learn to loathe it equally.)

And tip 74: Success, as I define it, is the ability to choose how you spend your day, and a full belly.

To read more of Chris Brogan’s ideas go here

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

LOL – Only read this if you know me really well…otherwise you might be needlessly annoyed

January 25th, 2012

A couple of weeks ago my soul sister and I had just finished a beautiful hike in the mountains.  We decided to go back to her house a grab a HOT cup of tea.

As we sipped from our mugs my friend was enthusiastically showing me the new “super sonic” bird feeder her children had given her for Christmas.  She explained with much excitement how this glass and steel contraption was so much better for the birds in terms of keeping them safe from other animals that might like to access the feeder (like bears).  Did I mention she backs on to a greenbelt?

Having two cats myself, and knowing that my friend has a couple of rent-a-cats that come by often for meals and love I asked:  “What do the cats  think of the bird feeder?”

“Oh, we haven’t seen much of them lately – so I don’t know.”  A few minutes later there was a neighborhood cat, named Java, at the glass balcony door eyeing up the bird feeder.

My friend first spoke eloquently about how beautiful Java was (he is a gorgeous and big cat) and then opened the door and tried to “shoo” Java away.  Have you ever tried to “shoo” a cat?  It doesn’t work…especially when there is bird feeder and LOTS of little birds flying above its head.  But after several scoldings Java seemed to disappear.

With the birds now safe we sat back down on the couch and resumed our conversation.  My friend remarked on how great it was to have this bird feeder as there now were all these new birds she’d “never seen before” coming by.  In the exact moment those words left her mouth, one of these unusual birds swooped through the sky towards the feeder and WHAMO Java pounced out of nowhere and caught the bird mid-air in his jaws and they both disappeared.

“Well,” I said. “I guess that’s one bird we’ve never seen before and one we’ll never see again.”

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Career and Leadership Success

January 23rd, 2012

Last week I had the honor of participating in Peter Reek’s Smart & Savvy Associates fantastic event for those wishing to build their marketing careers.

The event was masterfully choreographed with words of wisdom from 12 seasoned professionals sharing career planning “hindsights” interspersed with a dance competition, the Price is Right and Deal or No Deal.  The truly magnificent part of the evening was that each speaker had only 5-minutes (think ‘petcha kucha’ style) to share their insights (and, yes, most kept to the clock).

I was last up of the 12 and shared my “Seven Steps to Career and Leadership Success.”

I shared not only my personal experience, but more importantly, I shared the collective wisdom and hindsights of the hundreds of individuals I’ve coached to career and leadership success over the past dozen years.

Here’s a brief summary of what I said.  I decided to create a mnemonic to make the steps easy to remember. A video of the event is coming soon.  But until then, this will have to suffice.

Set a vision and goals:  The most successful folks I know set a vision (1 or 5 years out) for what is possible for their leadership and life.  They take a holistic view and determine the destination they aim to reach.  Then they put that vision up on the shelf and trust in it and themselves. Next they take an action everyday (large or small) that moves them in the right direction.

Understand self-esteem CPR:  Self-confidence is knowing the you have the skills to do something well.  Self-esteem is knowing your worth even if you are doing nothing.  Lack of self-esteem can stunt your career; no matter how talented you are.  You know you have strong self-esteem when you stay on an even keel no matter how great the wins or losses.  When you have strong belief in your worth regardless of market conditions you can practice Self-Esteem CPR:  you make Choices that move you toward your vision; you make Positivity a priority (your attitude, people and environments that surround you); and, you take measured Risks because you feel good in your own skin.

Create value security:  Job and career security has gone the way of the Brontosaurus.  It is extinct.  Yesterday’s world was about being employed.  You put in the hours and they gave you a gold watch.  Today’s world is about being employable.  You are measured on the value you bring and the results you deliver.  The more value you create, the more you make your performance shine, the more career options become available to you.

Contribute to others:  Don’t give to get.  Give to give.  Endeavor to make a meaningful impact on others.  Further this philosophy in your networking, volunteerism and day-to-day interactions.

Exercise your superpower:  The workplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The marketplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The leaders I know who have success on their terms play to their strengths.  They do not shore up weakness; and, instead build within their power alley.  In other words, if you were a superhero what would your superpower be?

Synergize your career and life:  Do not sacrifice your life for your career. Avoid burnout.  In our crazy busy world there is no such thing as balance and forget trying to achieve it.  Strive for harmony between your roles and responsibilities. In doing so, you will stop worrying about whether you are doing the right things and focus on doing the right things the right way.

Seek success not perfection: Perfection is a career killer.  When you focus on everything being a 100% right you get stuck.  You hold on too tightly and do not delegate or let things go.  You try to control everything and everyone. You miss opportunities to grow and take risks.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.23.12

January 23rd, 2012

MMRS

January 23, 2012 – Issue #41

Balance Thinking and Action
You become more personally powerful when you balance your external action with internal reflection and contemplation. Action without thought and replenishment (which is far, far more common in corporate life and western culture) leads to:

  • Frenzied activity
  • Controlling efforts to impose your own will
  • Pay later decisions (ones that require a great deal of rework, hidden costs, etc.)
  • And ultimately…
    • Frantic exhaustion
    • Burnout
    • Sense that our souls are fragmented

When you take a more balanced approach, you achieve greater capacity that enables:

  • Your best decisions
  • Growth
  • Resilience to handle challenges and setbacks

This Week’s Action: Assess how well you balance your actions with reflection.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.16.12

January 16th, 2012

MMRS

January 16, 2012 – Issue #40

The Luxury of Capacity
Time management is overrated. The real secret to dealing with higher workloads and demands on your time is to focus on increasing your capacity. You have high capacity when you have the inner reserves required to enable you to act in the most effective manner. See visual below.

capacity

Rethink time management as self-management. Lack of time can be a barrier but it is only a symptom, not the cause.

This Week’s Action: Pay attention to your stress level and assess if you have the inner reserves to adequately deal with the challenges that your typical day brings you.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.09.12

January 9th, 2012

MMRS

January 9, 2012 – Issue #39

Are You Successful?
If you believe that achieving success means more than how much money you make, you need to expand the indicators you use to track, measure and evaluate it. Consider adding:

  1. Purpose – to what degree am I living in alignment with my values, talents and passion?
  2. Presence – to what degree am I able to be fully alive and connected to whatever I am doing, whoever I am with?
  3. Peace – to what degree do I have a sense of inner contentment?
  4. Personal power – to what degree is my sense of self derived internally (vs. externally)?

This Week’s Action: Add these measures to your 2012 Success and Significance Plan and see how much value you want to (and do) gain and give this year.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.02.12

January 2nd, 2012

MMRS

January 2, 2012 – Issue #38

Success and Significance in 2012
If you want to experience greater success in all aspects of your life in 2012, forget about making New Year’s resolutions. They don’t work, but what does work is creating your Success and Significance Plan.

Your 2012 Success and Significance Plan needs to contain:

  • Specific, measureable goals
  • Actions to enable you to achieve goals
  • Contingencies for when the actions do not work as intended
  • Support and encouragement

Accountability is the key differentiator between aspirations and accomplishments. Assemble your own personal boot camp. Join a mastermind group. Get a career leadership coach.

Happy New Year! May you have all the courage, determination and will to make 2012 the year you achieve a spectacularly meaningful career and stellar results in all areas of your life.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 12.19.11

December 19th, 2011

MMRS

December 19, 2011 – Issue #37

Look Inward to Define Success
Success can simply be defined as: achieving what is most important to you.

There is only one person who can determine if you are successful and that is you. True success can never be defined by using someone else’s form of measurement. Therefore, if you want greater success in 2012, you have to be clear on what you want. Ask yourself what success looks like in terms of:

  • Career
  • Family/Loved Ones
  • Finances
  • Personal growth

Think about which aspects of your life you feel the most and least successful in. And consider what you are going to stop, start and continue doing in 2012 to focus on what’s working and let go of what is not.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 12.12.11

December 12th, 2011

MMRS

December 12, 2011 – Issue #36

Look Inward to See Forward
Last week we asked you how satisfied are you with what you accomplished this year. The majority of you said moderately satisfied (57%) and very satisfied (30%).

Albert Einstein once said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” Therefore, if you want a different quality of success next year that you did not experience this year, you have to take the time to examine the self-limiting beliefs that might be holding you back.

Ask yourself:

  • Why did I not achieve all that I wanted?
  • What is holding me back?
  • What inner thinking pattern must I change?

Our attitudes and what we believe in our minds and hearts ultimately dictate what we do. Therefore, if you want to soar in 2012, you have to eliminate whatever is preventing your ascent.

The Shine Peer Coaching Program starts in January. Member early bird discount ends December 15. Contact Lisa Martin to register.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 12.05.11

December 5th, 2011

MMRS

December 5, 2011 – Issue #35

Look Backward to See Forward
The end of the year is fast approaching. Before you start making plans for an even better new year, you need to first look backwards and assess the current year. Ask yourself the following questions:

  • What did I accomplish this year that I am most proud of?
  • How have I fallen short?
  • What did I learn?

You cannot improve what you do not understand. Therefore, before embarking on setting any intentions for the new year, seek to evaluate this one.

Survey Says
Contribute to the conversation.

How satisfied are you with what you accomplished this year? Very satisfied; moderately satisfied; dissatisfied.

Want to Shine in 2012?
Join us for our new peer coaching program and make 2012 your best year yet. Starts in January. Click here for more information.

You may subscribe and encourage others to subscribe by clicking here.

© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • Google Bookmarks